16 Secrets of Naturally Charming People

Theyre good listeners

Charmers immerse and focus themselves in what the other person is saying. They arent busy thinking of a rebuttal or a response. They dont interrupt people while theyre speaking, try to dominate the conversation, or tell stories to brag about themselves. They dont use a conversation as an opportunity to give a lecture or unsolicited advice. Instead, they make people feel like theyve been heard and focus on what theyre saying. Everyone loves to talk about themselves, says Mike Goldstein, founder and lead dating coach ofEZ Dating Coach.Ask the people you meet to do so. Being a good listener is just one of the signs you have incredible empathy.

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